Monday, March 3, 2008

FRIENDSHIP

What is Friendship? Guess that question sounds a bit dramatic. Well, have you given it a thought lately?

According to Wikipedia, 'Friendship is a term used to denote co-operative and supportive behavior between two or more humans.' I hope that sounds a bit familiar. Thats the whole essence of Friendship : co-operation and support.

So, how have you been fairing with your friends lately? Fine, not too fine? Uhmmm...not to worry, we all have been there before. We just cant do without our friends, can we? I doubt that very strongly because man was made for socialization not for isolation. I need you as much as you need me, thats what makes the world go round.

But there's a little snag here. Many people are wary of friendships because of the experiences they have had in times past;many have been betrayed or taken for granted, and as such are really careful when it comes to making friends. I quite understand, but in doing so, you might actually miss out on very wonderful friendships !

The irony of the situation is just that if you dont annoy your friends, they will so i guess thats the reason why we have to learn to adapt to one another. Even marriages have their ups and downs, but Couples have learnt to adapt to one another.

A suggestion : Have you appreciated your friends lately? If you havent, why dont you pick up your phone and send them a text message or give them a call telling them how much you appreciate their friendship because am sure you really do.

To all my friends out there, I Love you all so much and I wouldnt trade your friendship for anything in the world. Thanks for being my friend !

1 comment:

Anonymous said...

Good write up. I take a friend to be a resource person that serve as backbone and support for all condition. I take friendship as a gift from above for one to lean on in times of need.

Our Lord Jesus told His disciples,".. i call you friends.." seeing also that they stood with Him in His Ministry.

So cheerish whoever you see today as friend because such a one is a good gift from above.